Introversies



I’m glad that I can finally spend my time productive. I always want to be alone because whenever I’m alone I tend to think and plan everything, for me to be more productive. 

  • For some people, working on a table isn’t comfortable and honestly, I totally agree with that. But I’m trying to always put my laptop on my desk because everytime I’m on my desk, it feels like I’m really productive. I don’t know, it’s weird but I hope you get what I mean haha
  • Sleeping at 3AM everyday and waking up at 12PM. That’s my life *woot2*
  • Thank you moon, for being there. I freaking love how my bed is beside a window and where the moon is at.
  • Tried this new @mcdo_ph’s bff fries. Bitin padin haha :(
  • My mom and my dad decided to have a 3 days Boracay Trip this coming April 23-25 and I think on April 27 until the first week of May, we are going to Pangasinan, at my Grandma’s house to have a 2 weeks vacation and also to join the Bangus Festival. 
  • 'My Sisters Keeper' was such a good movie. It's a sad story but seriously I've learned a couple of things. It made me cry too T_T
  • I also watched the ‘About Time’, The Book Thief, & Toy Story 3. Watching movies is the only thing I always do to keep myself entertain and productive as well.

So, how are you guys? 


Thursday, April 17, 2014 26 notes and comments




It’s not that I really don’t care about those people around me. It’s not that I don’t care about their own business. It’s just that I rather choose to mind my own than to keep on thinking about someone else’s problems especially if I know I can’t give any help. I rather choose to be silent in a corner than to send comfort messages at a time that I know he/she wanted a space to be alone. Maybe it seems to be a little insensitive for me not to show any care to someone I know is facing a hard time about his/her life but deep inside me, I really wanna comfort him/her right away. But I rather remain silent and choose not to mind their own business because I know somehow I’ll be telling them that I care, at a time that I know they’ve already learned their lessons on their own way. I’m just avoiding myself to add fuel to the fire.


Tuesday, April 15, 2014 24 notes and comments




I’m thinking to post something and I don’t know what to blog so maybe I’ll just make this happy list thingy. I’m glad that everything is doing good now.

  • No regrets, just lesson learned.
  • Move on move on din pag may time.
  • Sweet and touching messages from my beloved youthmates.
  • Movie marathon all-day.
  • New favorite movies.
  • I have this problem where I get too into a movie and relate myself to the characters and end up in tears at some point, however, it’s a great feeling!
  • Finally, new people!

That’s it! I don’t know what to say but I’m just so thankful for everything. I’m so grateful for the people who are always there for me, thankyou you know who you are, I really appreciate it. 😊


Monday, April 14, 2014 36 notes and comments



silkagorres : hiiii everyone's different :) there's this "i believe in the goodness of strangers" thing and I think you should, somehow, always keep that in mind. it's okay to be cautious, i feel and do the same too. but you sometime have to let your walls down. I think that's the "comfort" i could give you now. wish i could've thought of something better but yeah, give chances :) it wouldn't hurt :) x

thank you so much for this po. i feel better now. i’ve learned a couple of things and i’d say na i’m really thankful that i’ve experienced this. i have made myself so strong somehow. so yeah, thank you for taking the time to send this. i appreciate it more than you can imagine. Xx


Thursday, April 10, 2014 3 notes and comments


Natatakot ako sa sarili ko.. Piling ko palagi nalang ako lolokohin ng ibang tao.. Ayos lang naman sakin mag bigay ng trust. Pero sana alagaan ng ibang tao yung binibigay kong trust sa kanila.. :’(


Thursday, April 10, 2014 4 notes and comments





This is our problem. We always ask ourselves what’s wrong with us. Why won’t someone like us? Is there anybody out there who can see through our soul and know all our imperfections and our crankiness… the things that we lack and the mistakes we’ve done in the past… yet, they’d still accept us. Is there anyone whose ever gonna love us for who we are? Anyone?

Well, there is someone who actually cares. There is someone who looks at you differently from the other people and feel a magical thing. There is someone out there who likes you… loves you. There is, I’m telling you, there is. The only problem is… we don’t notice them. Or worse, we do but we don’t care because we always think that they’re not the ones we actually need.

It’s a little stupid thing to do because it’s right there… in front of us, staring at our face but all we do is ignore and be picky of who should love us. We always want the perfect things for ourselves sometimes that we forget that there’s nothing perfect in this world… that we have to contented of what we have and love them.


Tuesday, April 8, 2014 58 notes and comments




I am an introvert. Contrary to popular & an on-going belief, many people think an introvert is shy, a loner, a mute, don’t like people or going out in public, aloof nerds and weird.

We are perfectly comfortable with our own thoughts. We think a lot. We daydream. We like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve.

A person who is energized by being alone and whose energy is drained by being around other people. This is true even if we have good social skills. After being with people for any length of time, such as at a party, We need time alone to “recharge.”
More concerned with the inner world of the mind. We enjoy thinking, exploring our thoughts and feelings. We primarily look inward, paying close attention to our thoughts and emotions. It’s not that we are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around us, it’s just that our inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to us.

Introverts are often individualists. We don’t follow the crowd. We’d prefer to be valued for our novel ways of living. We think for ourselves and because of that, We often challenge the norm. We don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy.

When introverts want to be alone, it is not, by itself, a sign of depression. It means we either need to regain our energy from being around people or that we simply want the time to be with our own thoughts. Being with people, even people we like and are comfortable with, can prevent us from our desire to be quietly introspective.

We value the few friends we have. We can count our close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life.
It does not mean that an introvert never has conversations. Introverts just don’t talk unless we have something to say. We hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something we are interested in, and we won’t shut up for days. However, those conversations are generally about ideas and concepts, not about what we consider the trivial matters of social small talk. What we need is a reason to interact. We don’t interact for the sake of interacting.

Introverts make up about 60% of the gifted population. And when I mean gifted, it means people who have IQs that ranges from 115-180. It is also said that a world without Introverts would be a world with few scientists, musicians, artists, poets, filmmakers, doctors, mathematicians, writers, and philosophers.


Monday, April 7, 2014 41 notes and comments



Answered Questions

Anonymous asked you: Hi Ben! I love this guy. He always left me hanging. For example, he’s okay now and then later, no. He will just ignore all my phone calls and messages. I don’t know why. What will I do? Please help me. :3

I think it’s better if you can talk to him. Ask him if there’s something wrong with you, if why he is not replying to your messages, if why he is not answering your phone calls.


Sunday, April 6, 2014 0 notes and comments